I HATE WHEN THIS HAPPENS

YESTERDAY I WROTE AN EXTENSIVE BLOG AND WHEN I WENT TO EDIT IT IT DISAPPEARED.
I WROTE ABOUT HOMO HOMO SAPS AND ALL THEIR TRICKY TRICKS AND ABOUT SOME VERY ETHICAL MORAL AND SELF AWARE HOMOS I HAVE KNOWN.
I HAVE WORKED WITH MEN IN THERAPY MOST OF MY DAYS AS A THERAPIST AND MANY MANY OF MY CLIENTS WERE HOMOSEXUAL BY NATURE, A FEW BY CHOICE . BY CHOICE I MEAN TEENAGERS WHO WERE TALKED INTO IT AND FELT VERY ASHAMED OF THEIR EXPERIENCE AND WERE TRYING TO OVER COME THIS SENSE OF SHAME TO GO ON TO A MARRIAGE AND CHILDREN.

MAYBE THE TITLE WASN'T TO THE LIKES OF A PERSON WHO LOOKS AT BLOGS AND MAKES A DECISION NOT TO PRINT IT. IT WAS HOMO HOMO SAPIENS OR HOMO HOMO SAPS.

AT ANY RATE I WANT IT MADE CLEAR THAT HOMOSEXUALS GET THEIR UNPLEASANT STANDINGS FROM FLAMBOYANT, NARCISSISTIC TYPE MALES WHO SEEM TO HAVE THE NEED TO DRAW ATTENTION TO THEMSELVES. THIS MAKES IT BAD FOR THOSE WHO ARE FAIRLY WELL ADJUSTED MEN WHO ARE LIKE THE REST OF US TRYING TO GET BY AND HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE AND WORK AND BE NORMAL .

WELL, YES FOR A NORMAL HOMOSEXUAL IT IS NORMAL

I HAVE 3 SONS AND 2 WERE NOT MARRIED BUT HAD A LONG LIST OF RELATIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN IN THEIR LIVES AND AT TIMES THOUGHT OF MARRIAGE . BOTH WERE HETEROSEXUALS AND WERE COFFEE HOUSE TYPES WHO WENT TO COFFEEHOUSES TO DRINK COFFEE AND USE THE FREE COMPUTER FAST INTERNETS. THEY LEARNED THIS HANGING OUT BEHAVIOR FROM THEIR PARENTS. ACTUALLY , WELL ... ANOTHER STORY ILL TELL LATER.
NOW, WHILE ATTENDING THESE PLACES THEY WERE APPROACHED ON MANY OCCASIONS WITH FLAMBOYANT IDIOTS HOMOSEXUALS WHO WOULD GO TO EXTREME MEASURES TO GET THEIR ATTENTION. MY OLDEST SON RESPONDED BY MAKING THREATS AND YELLING AT THEM AND MY SECOND SON BY IGNORING THEM AS MUCH AS HE COULD. NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE IS BUSY DOING COMPUTER THINGS OR READING THEY APPROACH LIKE DOGS WHO ARE HOMELESS.

IT WAS A SOURCE OF GREAT ANNOYANCE TO HIM UNTIL HIS DAD TALKED HIM INTO FINDING THE HUMOR OF IT ALL. AND OUR SON TELLS STORIES NOW OF HOW HE AVOIDS THE DEVILS.
THIS HAS NOW MADE HIS LIFE EASIER AND MORE INTERESTING.

WHEN WE MOVED BACK TO SACRAMENTO AFTER BEING IN THE WOODS IN SONOMA COUNTY WE HAD A DOWNTOWN HOUSE WE BOUGHT IT WHEN EVERYONE WAS MOVING TO THE BURBS AND RENTED IT OUT AND WHEN WE RETURNED IT WAS OUR ONLY HOME SINCE WE HAD SOLD ALL THE COUNTRY PROPERTIES. AT THE TIME DOWNTOWN WAS JUST BECOMING CAMPY TO LIVE IN AND IN MY DAUGHTER AND MY WANDERINGS DOWNTOWN WE DISCOVERED AN OLD COFFEE HOUSE IN 21ST STREET, AND THERE WERE PEOPLE WHO CAME TO THAT COFFEEHOUSE WE FOUND INTERESTING TO TALK TO, SO WE BEGAN A REGULAR ATTENDANCE THERE BETWEEN MY WORK MY DAUGHTER'S SCHOOL AND BALLET CLASSES .IT BECAME A REGULAR HABIT AND THEN MY HUSBAND AND SONS BEGAN ALSO COMING THERE . SO COFFEEHOUSES THEN BECAME A FAMILY TRADITION.

MANY OTHER FOLKS STARTED SOME AND THEY WERE SUCCESSFUL OR NOT BUT WE CONTINUED OUR VISITS TO THEM DAILY.
I MISS THOSE DAYS BECAUSE WE MADE MANY LONGSTANDING FRIENDSHIPS THERE. WE ARE NOW IN A PLACE WHERE THE ONLY COFFEEHOUSE IS STARBUCKS AND WE ONLY GOT ONE AFTER I WROTE THEM LETTERS ON THE INTERNET TELLING THEM MANY CALIFORNIANS WERE HERE AND WANTING A COFFEEHOUSE.
I HAVE FOUND THAT WRITING MAIL ON THE INTERNET TO PRAISE AND COMPLAIN ABOUT THINGS BRINGS MANY THINGS TO US.

I HAVE RECEIVED FREE CREDIT IN RESTAURANTS AFTER A COMPLAINT AND HAD SHOPPING CARTS AT SAFEWAY REPLACED WHEN I WROTE ABOUT FINDING BABY POOP IN A CART AND ASKED HOW THEY EXPECTED US TO PUT FOOD IN SUCH FILTHY CARTS I EVEN WENT TO ALBERTSONS FOR AWHILE AND SAFEWAY DID GET THE NEW CARTS AFTER THIS.

I WROTE TO FRYS WHEN I SAW THE MARKETPLACE WASN'T C0MING IN AS PROMISED WE NOW HAVE A FRYS MARKETPLACE THAT I LOVE.
NOW , IF SOMEONE COULD START AN OLD FASHIONED COFFEEHOUSE WHERE THE COFFEE WAS THE SAME STRENGTH AS REAL COFFEEHOUSE IN CALIFORNIA AND THE WEST COAST SERVE WE WILL BE IN BUSINESS.
WE HAD A LOVELY PLACE IN THE DOWNTOWN HERE BUT THE COFFEE WAS WEAK AND TASTELESS THEY TRIED TO MAKE MORE MONEY RATHER THAN SERVE EXCELLENT COFFEE.

AT HOME WE USE COFFEE FROM THE COFFEE FOOL WHICH I ORDER SEMIMONTHLY OR MONTH ELY PRN.
IT IS DELICIOUS.
OK THATS ALL FOR NOW.