!CADA CABEZA UN MUNDO!

WELP TODAY WE HAD A KNOCK ON THE DOOR THE POOR VETS COLLECTORS WERE HERE I HAD CALLED THEM TO COME PICK UP SOME TOOLS AND ITEMS THAT THE NEIGHBOR PROTESTED US PUTTING ON THE CURB FOR THEM SHE TOOK MOST OF THE STUFF WHICH I DIDN'T LEARN ABOUT UNTIL THIS MORNING DAMMIT!!
I HAD PLANNED ON THEM GETTING ALL THAT STUFF BUT I DID GIVE THEM A BLU RAY RECORDER PLAYER THAT SHE DIDN'T GET.
THIS NEIGHBOR IS IN ALL OUR BUSINESS, I GET TIRED OF HER.
THE SAME NEIGHBOR WHO STOLE OUR NEW GARBAGE BIN AFTER EXCHANGING A BROKEN ONE WITH US BEFORE THAT.
SELFISH OLD BAT MY HUSBAND CANNOT GO OUTDOORS THAT WITHIN A 20 SECOND LIMIT SHES NOT OUT THERE.

SHE REALLY THINKS SHE IS HOT ONCE WHEN WE WERE AT MIMI'S SHE WALKED UP TO OUR TABLE IN SHORT SHORT SHORTS AND A MIDRIFF SHES OVER 55 YEARS OLD. SHE ASKED WHAT WE WERE DOING THERE I ASKED IF SHE WAS DANCING AT A NIGHTCLUB IN HER OUTFIT. HAHAH

ANOTHER OLD WOMAN EMOTIONALLY ARRESTED IN HER TEENS.

I QUIT WEARING SHORTS AT AGE 40 WHEN I WAS IN TOP SHAPE GOING TO THE GYM DAILY AND BALLET LESSONS DAILY TIME.
I HAD MUSCLE TONE WHICH LOOKED OK BUT NOW I HAVE TURNED TO FLAB AND I'M FAT.

MY NEIGHBOR IS THIN AND HAS TURNED INTO FLAB BUT DOESN'T KNOW IT .

I THINK FLABBY THIN WOMEN LOOK MORE WEIRD THAN FAT FLABBYS.
AT ANY RATE TH ATS MY DAY SO FAR.

WELL I SPOKE WITH THE MOTHER OF ONE OF MY FAVORITE BABY GIRLS GONE ADULT ON US. HAHAH A LADY I SINCERELY LOVE AS WELL AS HER LOVELY YOUNG WOMAN OF A DAUGHTER .

WE HAVE HAD SEVERAL BABY GIRLS TO WATCH GROW UP AND ENJOY AS THEY GREW INTO BEAUTIFUL AND LOVELY WOMEN.
PRESENTLY THERE IS S SMALL CROP OF BABY BOYS WE ARE WATCHING GROW UP THEY ARE CUTE ALSO.

I, AT MY AGE HAVE COME TO A CONCLUSION: CHILDREN WHO GROW UP AS FIRST BORN'S AND ONLIES REQUIRE INTENSE AND CONSTANT ATTENTION FROM THEIR PARENTS , WHEREAS CHILDREN WITH SIBLINGS SPEND TIME WITH EACH OTHER PLAYING AT MANY IMAGINARY AND SOME OUTDOOR GAMES TOGETHER THIS GIVES PARENTS A BREAK FROM THE CONSTANT POUNDING DEMANDS OF ONLIES.

THIS IS AN OBSERVATION NOTED AFTER RAISING 4 CHILDREN MYSELF AND OBSERVING MANY IN OTHER FAMILIES.
I HAVE NOTICED THAT MOTHERS OF ONLY CHILDREN ARE MORE TIRED AND EXPERIENCE MORE HEADACHES THAN THOSE WITH MORE THAN ONE CHILD.

OF COURSE I HAVE ONLY OBSERVED FAMILIES IN REAL LIFE AND IN THERAPY SESSIONS I CONDUCTED SO I HAVE NOT THE ACTUAL DATA ONLY MY PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS.

BUT I DO BELIEVE IN MY PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS. THERE IS ALSO ANOTHER UNUSUAL PHENOMENA IN FAMILIES RECENTLY FROM OTHER COUNTRIES: IF THERE ARE TWO CHILDREN ONE BOY ONE GIRL DEPENDING ON THE COUNTRY, EACH IS TREATED AS AN ONLY BUT MANY FAVOR THE BOYS AND SEE THE GIRLS AS A POSSIBILITY OF THE FAMILY BECOMING MORE WEALTHY IF SHE MARRIES WELL AND HER ACTIVITIES ARE RESTRICTED UNTIL THE MARRIAGE BED. THE BOY, HOWEVER HAS TOTAL FREEDOM TO EXPLORE HIS ENVIRONMENT AND "HANG OUT" WITH FRIENDS.

IN THE US THERE IS STILL A MINOR HOLD ON YOUNG GIRLS TO BEHAVE A CERTAIN WAY AND BOYS ANOTHER BUT IT IS NOT AS STRONG AS IN MANY NEW IMMIGRANTS FROM OTHER COUNTRIES.

SO SINCE THEY ARE CONSIDERED ONLIES THERE IS A CLOSE WATCH ON EACH OF THEM DEPENDING ON THE CULTURE . AND WHATEVER VALUES THERE ARE ARE FOSTERED IN THE CHILDREN. THERE DOES COME A TIME WHEN THE CHILDREN WHO ARE ASSIMILATING TO US CULTURE RUN INTO CONFLICT WITH PARENTS WHEN THEY TRY TO BEHAVE AS AMERICAN CHILDREN AND THE PARENTS WANT TO MAINTAIN THEIR OWN CULTURE.
THIS HAS BEEN TRUE WITH EVERY NEW IMMIGRANT TO AMERICA.
EVENTUALLY EVERYONE FALLS INTO SOME FORM OF AMERICAN CULTURE WITH VARIATIONS ON THE THEME.

NOW REMEMBER I HAVE ONLY MY OWN INNER REALITY TO DEPEND ON AND MY OWN OBSERVATIONS OF WHAT I AM DESCRIBING AND IF YOU HAVE ANOTHER VIEW, DON'T HESITATE TO LET ME KNOW.
I AM ALWAYS WILLING TO SEE ANOTHER VIEW OF OUR WORLD IT EDUCATES ME FURTHER.
IN SPANISH THERE IS A SAYING "CADA CABEZA UN MUNDO" MEANING "EVERY MIND IS A WORLD IN ITSELF".
THAT IS ONE THOUGHT I KEEP IN MIND WHEN SPEAKING WITH NEW PEOPLE I MEET AND EVEN WITH THOSE I ALREADY KNOW.

I HAVE NOTICED THAT MANY PEOPLE I USED TO TALK TO FREQUENTLY HAVE NOW CHANGED VIEWS ABOUT THINGS WE USED TO AGREE ON.
SO NOW WE HAVE A RE WORKED MIND TO SEE.

FOR INSTANCE ONE FRIEND AND I ALWAYS AGREED THAT ONE DAY WE WOULD HAVE CONTACT IN THE FUTURE WORLD REALITY OF DEATH WITH OUR CHILDREN WHO DIED, AND WE BOTH BELIEVED IN THIS REALITY I STILL DO. I BELIEVE THAT WHATEVER WE BELIEVE WILL HAPPEN AFTER LIFE IS WHAT WILL OCCUR.
IF WE BELIEVE IT WILL BE HORRIBLE WE WILL FIND THAT, IF WE BELIEVE WE CAN CREATE A REALITY THAT WE DESIRE AFTER DEATH WE WILL EXPERIENCE THAT AND THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I BELIEVE.
AND IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL GET YOUR ANGEL WINGS THEN TH ATS WHAT YOU GET. IF YOU BELIEVE YOU WILL BE A SAINT THEN A SAINT YOU WILL BE.
SOME PEOPLE BELIEVE LIFE IS ALL THERE IS AND ITS ALL OVER AT DEATH. BUT IF THAT IS TRUE WHAT HAPPENS TO THE CONSCIOUSNESS WE RELEASE AT DEATH WHERE DOES IT GO? IT WAS THE MOTOR THAT DROVE THIS BODY IN LIFE, IT HAS TO GO SOMEWHERE.

SO ,MANY MINDS SO MANY THOUGHTS AND IDEAS ABOUT A CERTAINTY WE ALL FACE. DEATH; THE FINAL FRONTIER.
SO MUCH THINKING SO LITTLE WE AGREE UPON. SO MANY MINDS SO MANY WORLDS. OK BYE