Sunday, June 21, 2009

THE HAPPY BABY AT MIMI'S

WE WENT TO MIMI'S AND THERE WAS A BABY GIRL WITH HER MOM AND DAD AND GRAND PARENTS, SHE WAS SO SWEET AND SMILEY AND SHE WAS ENTRANCED BY OUR ATTENTION AND THE PARENTS ALLOWED US TO HOLD HER FOR A WHILE, AND SHE WAS SO VERY CHEERFUL AND SWEET.
IT IS SO NICE WHEN PARENTS APPROVE OF OTHER PEOPLES LOVE FOR THEIR BABIES, SO MANY ARE PARANOID ANYMORE , IT MAKES IT SAD THAT LITTLE ONES ARE DEPRIVED OF LOVING ATTENTION.

SO DIFFERENT FROM WHEN I WAS A CHILD, ALL CHILDREN SORTA BELONGED TO EVERYONE AND IF YOU WERE NAWTY, YOU GOT STOPPED BY THE RESPONSIBLE ADULT WHO FOUND YOU DOING THE BADDY. AND YOU WERE IMMEDIATELY REINFORCED TOWARD GOOD BEHAVIOR.

A CHILD LEARNS BEST BY REINFORCING THEIR ACCEPTABLE BEHAVIOR, YOU LOOK F9R THE BEHAVIOR YOU APPROVE OF AND INSTANTLY TELL THE CHILD OF YOUR APPROVAL. SUCH A SIMPLE IDEA, AND YET SO MANY PARENTS DO NOT KNOW THIS.
I HAD A LOT OF TRAINING IN BEHAVIOR MODIFICATION IN COLLEGE AND WAS ABLE TO ALTER MANY SAD CHILD'S LIFE THROUGH TEACHING THEM APPROVAL FOR ALL GOOD THINGS THEY DID.
WHEN I WORKED IN A STATE HOSPITAL WITH ADOLESCENTS WHO WERE DISTURBED, MANY PSYCHIATRIC TECHNICIANS WHO WERE TRAINED TO DO DIFFERENTLY, PUNISHED KIDS BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T LIKE THEM AND WOULD AGGRAVATE THEM TO THE POINT WHERE RESTRAINTS WERE USED.
I SPENT MUCH TIME WRITING UP THESE MALCONTENT INAPPROPRIATE PEOPLE AND MADE A LOT OF NON FRIENDS THAT WAY.
BUT I DIDN'T CARE I KNEW RIGHT AND WRONG AND I TOOK RESPONSIBILITY FOR MY ACTIONS AND THE KIDS WERE SPARED A LOT OF BAD STUFF WHEN I WAS THERE.

ONCE I WORKED ON A UNIT WITH DEVELOPMENTALLY DISABLED CITIZENS IN A HOSPITAL AND ONE PATIENT IN PARTICULAR WAS ALWAYS SHOWING UP BRUISED AND WITH KNOTS ON HIS BODY UNTIL ONE DAY I WATCHED THE NURSE BATHING HIM, SHE HAD SAID HE FELL IN THE SHOWER OR TUB, HE DID NOT FALL. SHE WAS A VERY BAD PERSON. 6 WEEKS AFTER THE LAST EPISODE OF ABUSE IT WAS REPORTED SHE DIED OF COCAINE OVERDOSE. THIS WOMAN WAS ABUSING DRUGS AND PATIENTS AND HAD A JOB AS A NURSE WHERE HER SALARY WAS QUITE LARGE AS A NURSE AND SHE CHOSE TO BE AN IDIOT. I CANNOT SAY I'M SORRY SHE WENT INTO T HEREAFTER BEFORE SHE COULD HURT ANYONE ELSE.

ONE DAY THIS WEEK WE WENT TO THE STRIP MALL WHERE OFFICE MAX IS AND I BOUGHT THOSE PENS THAT YOU USE ON BILLS TO DETERMINE IF THEY ARE COUNTERFEIT OR NOT, I WENT IN A STORE RECENTLY ACE HARDWARE WHERE A SIGN SAID THEY DON'T TAKE $50 BILLS ANYMORE BECAUSE THERE ARE TOO MANY COUNTERFEIT ONES . ALL YOU NEED IS A PEN TO DETERMINE IF THEY ARE GENUINE OR NOT. I GOT ONE AND NEXT TIME I GO TO ACE HARDWARE ILL SHOW IT TO THEM SO THEY CAN GET UP TO MODERN TIMES!!

ALSO ON THAT DAY I WAS LEAVING THE STORE AND I SAW DAD(DON) AND A LITTLE BOY PLUS HIS 2 MOMS IN FRONT OF THE DOLLAR STORE AND THE LITTLE BOY WAS VERY EXCITED , I DISCOVERED THAT DAD HAD GIVEN HIM A $2 DOLLAR BILL AND HE THOUGHT HE WAS REALLY REALLY RICH AS THEY WANDERED OFF I HEARD HIM SAY TO THE MOMS" I WILL TAKE YOU OUT TO DINNER!" HAHA LITTLE BOYS ARE SO DEAR.

DAD AFTER SAID HE WASN'T ABLE TO GET A TOY BECAUSE HE HAD NO MONEY WHEN HE GAVE HIM THE MONEY AND HE DIDNT BUY A TOY HE WAS GOING TO SPEND IT ON THE MOMS.

CHILDREN ARE GOD'S GIFT TO HUMANITY.

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