I REMEMBER WHEN MY KIDS STARTED CUSSING AND A VERY NASTY NEIGHBOR THAT HAD ZERO MORALS CAME TO ME TO TATTLE ON THEM. SHE SAID MY SON HAD CURSED HER AND SHE WANTED ME TO PUNISH HIM SEVERELY , I ASKED WHAT HE SAID ANS SHE JUST COULDN'T TELL ME IT WAS SO TERRIBLE!!
I TOLD THE WOMAN WELL I CANNOT PUNISH A CHILD FOR SOME UNNAMED OFFENSE . SHE SAID IF I DIDN'T DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT, SHE WOULD FIND SOMEONE WHO DID. SHE NEXT TRIED TO LIGHT A CIGARETTE IN MY LIVING ROOM, MIND YOU, AND THE MATCHBOOK BLEW UP IN HER HAND AND SHE GOT BURNED.
I TOLD HER TO DO WHAT SHE HAD TO DO.
WHEN MY KIDS GOT HOME FROM SCHOOL I ASKED WHAT THE PROBLEM WAS WITH THE NEIGHBOR THEY SAID SHE CALLED THEM LITTLE BASTARDS SO THEY SAID"FUCK YOU BITCH".
THEY HAD A GRUDGE Against the family because the husband HAD TAKEN A KITTEN AND BASHED HIM AGAINST A TELEPHONE POLE.
I DECIDED IT WAS TIME TO CORRECT MY KIDS BEHAVIORS, I TOLD THEM
THEY COULD CURSE ALL THEY WANTED TO AT HOME BUT NEVER ANYWHERE ELSE. THIS WORKED WELL UNTIL THE NEIGHBOR'S KIDS CAME OVER TO TEST IT.
WELL, I LET IT GO AND LET IT GO UNTIL ONE DAY IT WAS MAGICALLY EXTINGUISHED.
I DIDN'T ALWAYS USE TRADITIONAL WAYS TO CORRECT MY CHILDREN BUT IT SEEMED TO WORK.
MY YOUNGEST SON WAS ACTING UP IN A GROCERY STORE AND HIS DAD TOLD HIM IF HE DIDN'T BEHAVE HE WOULD CORRECT HIM IN SUCH A WAY HE WOULD BE VERY EMBARRASSED, THIS SON WAS NOT INTIMIDATED AND CONTINUED THE BEHAVIORS MT HUSBAND REACHED OVER AND SQUEEZED HIS LITTLE BALLS AND STOPPED THE BEHAVIOR RIGHT AWAY AND IT NEVER HAPPENED AGAIN.
WE WERE TERRIBLE BUT EFFECTIVE PARENTS.
AND YET THEY REMEMBER HAVING THE BEST CHILDHOOD EVER EACH WITH A SMALL NEUROSIS TO HELP THEM ALONG LIFE'S WAY.
AND WE RARELY EVER SPANKED THEM AFTER WE LEARNED IN PSYCHOLOGY CLASSES HOW WE COULD HARM THEM THAT WAY AND TEACH THEM VIOLENCE.
IT JUST GOES TO PROVE THAT EVERY MAN HAS HIS WAY.
I LOVED MY CHILDREN SO MUCH THAT I WAS IN CONSTANT FEAR OF LOSING THEM SOMEWAY.
AND YET I DID LOSE 2 OF THEM .
BUT I AM GRATEFUL FOR HAVING HAD THEM AND KNOWN THEM IN EVERY POSSIBLE WAY.
Saturday, June 18, 2011
Monday, June 6, 2011
this is from my new laptop
WELL IT IS ANOTHER MONDAY DAY HAHA WE Watched the Sunday night programs HAPPILY AND NOW WE MUST SETTLE FOR LITTLE FARE FOR THE SUMMER. WONDER WHY THE TV COMPANIES THINK WE DON'T NEED TV FARE THAT'S FRESH AND INTERESTING AND WELL DONE IN SUMMER?
WHEN I RULE THE WORLD ETC....
I WAS JUST REVIEWING IN MY MIND ABOUT MY FRIENDS AND HOW MUCH THEY HAVE HELPED ME IN PAST TIMES AND THEY REALLY CAME THROUGH.
I HAVE LOST 2 OF MY CHILDREN NOW AND IT HAS BEEN THE MOST TORTUOUS THING EVER.
I KNOW NOW WHAT THAT FAMILY WHO LOST TWO KIDS IN THE AIRPORT CRASH FELT LIKE IN SACRAMENTO.
IT JUST NEVER GOES AWAY COMPLETELY ... THE PAIN AND LOSS YOU JUST GET TIMES OF NOT REMEMBERING I CALL THEM PERIODS OF PEACE.
ANYWAYS THAT IS ON MY MIND.
HOW VERY KIND MY FRIENDS WERE DURING THOSE TIMES. HOW MUCH I LOVE THEM AND HO GRATEFUL I AM FOR ALL THEIR LOVING SUPPORT.
WHEN I RULE THE WORLD ETC....
I WAS JUST REVIEWING IN MY MIND ABOUT MY FRIENDS AND HOW MUCH THEY HAVE HELPED ME IN PAST TIMES AND THEY REALLY CAME THROUGH.
I HAVE LOST 2 OF MY CHILDREN NOW AND IT HAS BEEN THE MOST TORTUOUS THING EVER.
I KNOW NOW WHAT THAT FAMILY WHO LOST TWO KIDS IN THE AIRPORT CRASH FELT LIKE IN SACRAMENTO.
IT JUST NEVER GOES AWAY COMPLETELY ... THE PAIN AND LOSS YOU JUST GET TIMES OF NOT REMEMBERING I CALL THEM PERIODS OF PEACE.
ANYWAYS THAT IS ON MY MIND.
HOW VERY KIND MY FRIENDS WERE DURING THOSE TIMES. HOW MUCH I LOVE THEM AND HO GRATEFUL I AM FOR ALL THEIR LOVING SUPPORT.
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
!CADA CABEZA UN MUNDO!
WELP TODAY WE HAD A KNOCK ON THE DOOR THE POOR VETS COLLECTORS WERE HERE I HAD CALLED THEM TO COME PICK UP SOME TOOLS AND ITEMS THAT THE NEIGHBOR PROTESTED US PUTTING ON THE CURB FOR THEM SHE TOOK MOST OF THE STUFF WHICH I DIDN'T LEARN ABOUT UNTIL THIS MORNING DAMMIT!!
I HAD PLANNED ON THEM GETTING ALL THAT STUFF BUT I DID GIVE THEM A BLU RAY RECORDER PLAYER THAT SHE DIDN'T GET.
THIS NEIGHBOR IS IN ALL OUR BUSINESS, I GET TIRED OF HER.
THE SAME NEIGHBOR WHO STOLE OUR NEW GARBAGE BIN AFTER EXCHANGING A BROKEN ONE WITH US BEFORE THAT.
SELFISH OLD BAT MY HUSBAND CANNOT GO OUTDOORS THAT WITHIN A 20 SECOND LIMIT SHES NOT OUT THERE.
SHE REALLY THINKS SHE IS HOT ONCE WHEN WE WERE AT MIMI'S SHE WALKED UP TO OUR TABLE IN SHORT SHORT SHORTS AND A MIDRIFF SHES OVER 55 YEARS OLD. SHE ASKED WHAT WE WERE DOING THERE I ASKED IF SHE WAS DANCING AT A NIGHTCLUB IN HER OUTFIT. HAHAH
ANOTHER OLD WOMAN EMOTIONALLY ARRESTED IN HER TEENS.
I QUIT WEARING SHORTS AT AGE 40 WHEN I WAS IN TOP SHAPE GOING TO THE GYM DAILY AND BALLET LESSONS DAILY TIME.
I HAD MUSCLE TONE WHICH LOOKED OK BUT NOW I HAVE TURNED TO FLAB AND I'M FAT.
MY NEIGHBOR IS THIN AND HAS TURNED INTO FLAB BUT DOESN'T KNOW IT .
I THINK FLABBY THIN WOMEN LOOK MORE WEIRD THAN FAT FLABBYS.
AT ANY RATE TH ATS MY DAY SO FAR.
WELL I SPOKE WITH THE MOTHER OF ONE OF MY FAVORITE BABY GIRLS GONE ADULT ON US. HAHAH A LADY I SINCERELY LOVE AS WELL AS HER LOVELY YOUNG WOMAN OF A DAUGHTER .
WE HAVE HAD SEVERAL BABY GIRLS TO WATCH GROW UP AND ENJOY AS THEY GREW INTO BEAUTIFUL AND LOVELY WOMEN.
PRESENTLY THERE IS S SMALL CROP OF BABY BOYS WE ARE WATCHING GROW UP THEY ARE CUTE ALSO.
I, AT MY AGE HAVE COME TO A CONCLUSION: CHILDREN WHO GROW UP AS FIRST BORN'S AND ONLIES REQUIRE INTENSE AND CONSTANT ATTENTION FROM THEIR PARENTS , WHEREAS CHILDREN WITH SIBLINGS SPEND TIME WITH EACH OTHER PLAYING AT MANY IMAGINARY AND SOME OUTDOOR GAMES TOGETHER THIS GIVES PARENTS A BREAK FROM THE CONSTANT POUNDING DEMANDS OF ONLIES.
THIS IS AN OBSERVATION NOTED AFTER RAISING 4 CHILDREN MYSELF AND OBSERVING MANY IN OTHER FAMILIES.
I HAVE NOTICED THAT MOTHERS OF ONLY CHILDREN ARE MORE TIRED AND EXPERIENCE MORE HEADACHES THAN THOSE WITH MORE THAN ONE CHILD.
OF COURSE I HAVE ONLY OBSERVED FAMILIES IN REAL LIFE AND IN THERAPY SESSIONS I CONDUCTED SO I HAVE NOT THE ACTUAL DATA ONLY MY PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS.
BUT I DO BELIEVE IN MY PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS. THERE IS ALSO ANOTHER UNUSUAL PHENOMENA IN FAMILIES RECENTLY FROM OTHER COUNTRIES: IF THERE ARE TWO CHILDREN ONE BOY ONE GIRL DEPENDING ON THE COUNTRY, EACH IS TREATED AS AN ONLY BUT MANY FAVOR THE BOYS AND SEE THE GIRLS AS A POSSIBILITY OF THE FAMILY BECOMING MORE WEALTHY IF SHE MARRIES WELL AND HER ACTIVITIES ARE RESTRICTED UNTIL THE MARRIAGE BED. THE BOY, HOWEVER HAS TOTAL FREEDOM TO EXPLORE HIS ENVIRONMENT AND "HANG OUT" WITH FRIENDS.
IN THE US THERE IS STILL A MINOR HOLD ON YOUNG GIRLS TO BEHAVE A CERTAIN WAY AND BOYS ANOTHER BUT IT IS NOT AS STRONG AS IN MANY NEW IMMIGRANTS FROM OTHER COUNTRIES.
SO SINCE THEY ARE CONSIDERED ONLIES THERE IS A CLOSE WATCH ON EACH OF THEM DEPENDING ON THE CULTURE . AND WHATEVER VALUES THERE ARE ARE FOSTERED IN THE CHILDREN. THERE DOES COME A TIME WHEN THE CHILDREN WHO ARE ASSIMILATING TO US CULTURE RUN INTO CONFLICT WITH PARENTS WHEN THEY TRY TO BEHAVE AS AMERICAN CHILDREN AND THE PARENTS WANT TO MAINTAIN THEIR OWN CULTURE.
THIS HAS BEEN TRUE WITH EVERY NEW IMMIGRANT TO AMERICA.
EVENTUALLY EVERYONE FALLS INTO SOME FORM OF AMERICAN CULTURE WITH VARIATIONS ON THE THEME.
NOW REMEMBER I HAVE ONLY MY OWN INNER REALITY TO DEPEND ON AND MY OWN OBSERVATIONS OF WHAT I AM DESCRIBING AND IF YOU HAVE ANOTHER VIEW, DON'T HESITATE TO LET ME KNOW.
I AM ALWAYS WILLING TO SEE ANOTHER VIEW OF OUR WORLD IT EDUCATES ME FURTHER.
IN SPANISH THERE IS A SAYING "CADA CABEZA UN MUNDO" MEANING "EVERY MIND IS A WORLD IN ITSELF".
THAT IS ONE THOUGHT I KEEP IN MIND WHEN SPEAKING WITH NEW PEOPLE I MEET AND EVEN WITH THOSE I ALREADY KNOW.
I HAVE NOTICED THAT MANY PEOPLE I USED TO TALK TO FREQUENTLY HAVE NOW CHANGED VIEWS ABOUT THINGS WE USED TO AGREE ON.
SO NOW WE HAVE A RE WORKED MIND TO SEE.
FOR INSTANCE ONE FRIEND AND I ALWAYS AGREED THAT ONE DAY WE WOULD HAVE CONTACT IN THE FUTURE WORLD REALITY OF DEATH WITH OUR CHILDREN WHO DIED, AND WE BOTH BELIEVED IN THIS REALITY I STILL DO. I BELIEVE THAT WHATEVER WE BELIEVE WILL HAPPEN AFTER LIFE IS WHAT WILL OCCUR.
IF WE BELIEVE IT WILL BE HORRIBLE WE WILL FIND THAT, IF WE BELIEVE WE CAN CREATE A REALITY THAT WE DESIRE AFTER DEATH WE WILL EXPERIENCE THAT AND THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I BELIEVE.
AND IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL GET YOUR ANGEL WINGS THEN TH ATS WHAT YOU GET. IF YOU BELIEVE YOU WILL BE A SAINT THEN A SAINT YOU WILL BE.
SOME PEOPLE BELIEVE LIFE IS ALL THERE IS AND ITS ALL OVER AT DEATH. BUT IF THAT IS TRUE WHAT HAPPENS TO THE CONSCIOUSNESS WE RELEASE AT DEATH WHERE DOES IT GO? IT WAS THE MOTOR THAT DROVE THIS BODY IN LIFE, IT HAS TO GO SOMEWHERE.
SO ,MANY MINDS SO MANY THOUGHTS AND IDEAS ABOUT A CERTAINTY WE ALL FACE. DEATH; THE FINAL FRONTIER.
SO MUCH THINKING SO LITTLE WE AGREE UPON. SO MANY MINDS SO MANY WORLDS. OK BYE
I HAD PLANNED ON THEM GETTING ALL THAT STUFF BUT I DID GIVE THEM A BLU RAY RECORDER PLAYER THAT SHE DIDN'T GET.
THIS NEIGHBOR IS IN ALL OUR BUSINESS, I GET TIRED OF HER.
THE SAME NEIGHBOR WHO STOLE OUR NEW GARBAGE BIN AFTER EXCHANGING A BROKEN ONE WITH US BEFORE THAT.
SELFISH OLD BAT MY HUSBAND CANNOT GO OUTDOORS THAT WITHIN A 20 SECOND LIMIT SHES NOT OUT THERE.
SHE REALLY THINKS SHE IS HOT ONCE WHEN WE WERE AT MIMI'S SHE WALKED UP TO OUR TABLE IN SHORT SHORT SHORTS AND A MIDRIFF SHES OVER 55 YEARS OLD. SHE ASKED WHAT WE WERE DOING THERE I ASKED IF SHE WAS DANCING AT A NIGHTCLUB IN HER OUTFIT. HAHAH
ANOTHER OLD WOMAN EMOTIONALLY ARRESTED IN HER TEENS.
I QUIT WEARING SHORTS AT AGE 40 WHEN I WAS IN TOP SHAPE GOING TO THE GYM DAILY AND BALLET LESSONS DAILY TIME.
I HAD MUSCLE TONE WHICH LOOKED OK BUT NOW I HAVE TURNED TO FLAB AND I'M FAT.
MY NEIGHBOR IS THIN AND HAS TURNED INTO FLAB BUT DOESN'T KNOW IT .
I THINK FLABBY THIN WOMEN LOOK MORE WEIRD THAN FAT FLABBYS.
AT ANY RATE TH ATS MY DAY SO FAR.
WELL I SPOKE WITH THE MOTHER OF ONE OF MY FAVORITE BABY GIRLS GONE ADULT ON US. HAHAH A LADY I SINCERELY LOVE AS WELL AS HER LOVELY YOUNG WOMAN OF A DAUGHTER .
WE HAVE HAD SEVERAL BABY GIRLS TO WATCH GROW UP AND ENJOY AS THEY GREW INTO BEAUTIFUL AND LOVELY WOMEN.
PRESENTLY THERE IS S SMALL CROP OF BABY BOYS WE ARE WATCHING GROW UP THEY ARE CUTE ALSO.
I, AT MY AGE HAVE COME TO A CONCLUSION: CHILDREN WHO GROW UP AS FIRST BORN'S AND ONLIES REQUIRE INTENSE AND CONSTANT ATTENTION FROM THEIR PARENTS , WHEREAS CHILDREN WITH SIBLINGS SPEND TIME WITH EACH OTHER PLAYING AT MANY IMAGINARY AND SOME OUTDOOR GAMES TOGETHER THIS GIVES PARENTS A BREAK FROM THE CONSTANT POUNDING DEMANDS OF ONLIES.
THIS IS AN OBSERVATION NOTED AFTER RAISING 4 CHILDREN MYSELF AND OBSERVING MANY IN OTHER FAMILIES.
I HAVE NOTICED THAT MOTHERS OF ONLY CHILDREN ARE MORE TIRED AND EXPERIENCE MORE HEADACHES THAN THOSE WITH MORE THAN ONE CHILD.
OF COURSE I HAVE ONLY OBSERVED FAMILIES IN REAL LIFE AND IN THERAPY SESSIONS I CONDUCTED SO I HAVE NOT THE ACTUAL DATA ONLY MY PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS.
BUT I DO BELIEVE IN MY PERSONAL OBSERVATIONS. THERE IS ALSO ANOTHER UNUSUAL PHENOMENA IN FAMILIES RECENTLY FROM OTHER COUNTRIES: IF THERE ARE TWO CHILDREN ONE BOY ONE GIRL DEPENDING ON THE COUNTRY, EACH IS TREATED AS AN ONLY BUT MANY FAVOR THE BOYS AND SEE THE GIRLS AS A POSSIBILITY OF THE FAMILY BECOMING MORE WEALTHY IF SHE MARRIES WELL AND HER ACTIVITIES ARE RESTRICTED UNTIL THE MARRIAGE BED. THE BOY, HOWEVER HAS TOTAL FREEDOM TO EXPLORE HIS ENVIRONMENT AND "HANG OUT" WITH FRIENDS.
IN THE US THERE IS STILL A MINOR HOLD ON YOUNG GIRLS TO BEHAVE A CERTAIN WAY AND BOYS ANOTHER BUT IT IS NOT AS STRONG AS IN MANY NEW IMMIGRANTS FROM OTHER COUNTRIES.
SO SINCE THEY ARE CONSIDERED ONLIES THERE IS A CLOSE WATCH ON EACH OF THEM DEPENDING ON THE CULTURE . AND WHATEVER VALUES THERE ARE ARE FOSTERED IN THE CHILDREN. THERE DOES COME A TIME WHEN THE CHILDREN WHO ARE ASSIMILATING TO US CULTURE RUN INTO CONFLICT WITH PARENTS WHEN THEY TRY TO BEHAVE AS AMERICAN CHILDREN AND THE PARENTS WANT TO MAINTAIN THEIR OWN CULTURE.
THIS HAS BEEN TRUE WITH EVERY NEW IMMIGRANT TO AMERICA.
EVENTUALLY EVERYONE FALLS INTO SOME FORM OF AMERICAN CULTURE WITH VARIATIONS ON THE THEME.
NOW REMEMBER I HAVE ONLY MY OWN INNER REALITY TO DEPEND ON AND MY OWN OBSERVATIONS OF WHAT I AM DESCRIBING AND IF YOU HAVE ANOTHER VIEW, DON'T HESITATE TO LET ME KNOW.
I AM ALWAYS WILLING TO SEE ANOTHER VIEW OF OUR WORLD IT EDUCATES ME FURTHER.
IN SPANISH THERE IS A SAYING "CADA CABEZA UN MUNDO" MEANING "EVERY MIND IS A WORLD IN ITSELF".
THAT IS ONE THOUGHT I KEEP IN MIND WHEN SPEAKING WITH NEW PEOPLE I MEET AND EVEN WITH THOSE I ALREADY KNOW.
I HAVE NOTICED THAT MANY PEOPLE I USED TO TALK TO FREQUENTLY HAVE NOW CHANGED VIEWS ABOUT THINGS WE USED TO AGREE ON.
SO NOW WE HAVE A RE WORKED MIND TO SEE.
FOR INSTANCE ONE FRIEND AND I ALWAYS AGREED THAT ONE DAY WE WOULD HAVE CONTACT IN THE FUTURE WORLD REALITY OF DEATH WITH OUR CHILDREN WHO DIED, AND WE BOTH BELIEVED IN THIS REALITY I STILL DO. I BELIEVE THAT WHATEVER WE BELIEVE WILL HAPPEN AFTER LIFE IS WHAT WILL OCCUR.
IF WE BELIEVE IT WILL BE HORRIBLE WE WILL FIND THAT, IF WE BELIEVE WE CAN CREATE A REALITY THAT WE DESIRE AFTER DEATH WE WILL EXPERIENCE THAT AND THAT IS EXACTLY WHAT I BELIEVE.
AND IF YOU BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL GET YOUR ANGEL WINGS THEN TH ATS WHAT YOU GET. IF YOU BELIEVE YOU WILL BE A SAINT THEN A SAINT YOU WILL BE.
SOME PEOPLE BELIEVE LIFE IS ALL THERE IS AND ITS ALL OVER AT DEATH. BUT IF THAT IS TRUE WHAT HAPPENS TO THE CONSCIOUSNESS WE RELEASE AT DEATH WHERE DOES IT GO? IT WAS THE MOTOR THAT DROVE THIS BODY IN LIFE, IT HAS TO GO SOMEWHERE.
SO ,MANY MINDS SO MANY THOUGHTS AND IDEAS ABOUT A CERTAINTY WE ALL FACE. DEATH; THE FINAL FRONTIER.
SO MUCH THINKING SO LITTLE WE AGREE UPON. SO MANY MINDS SO MANY WORLDS. OK BYE
Sunday, May 22, 2011
egads whatta day
i had to try ABOUT 5 TIMES TO GET INTO MY BLOG I CANT IMAGINE WHY.
BUT HERE I AM AT LAST.
I HAD SO MANY STORIES BUT IN MY STRESS TO GET INTO MY BLOG THEY SLID AWAY...THAT IS THE WAY OF THE OLD WOMAN'S MIND AND THE OLD MANS AS WELL I HAVE A HUBBY AGED 80 NOW
AND HE ASKS IF I REMEMBER THAT THINGY .. HA HA AS IF.
WHEN MY KIDS WERE LITTLE, WE HAD AN ELECTRIC TYPEWRITER AND THEY WOULD WRITE STUFF ONCE IN AWHILE...ONCE THEY WROTE SON OF A B9TCH THEY HIT THE 9 INSTEAD OF THE I HAHAH ONE OF MY FAVORITE NEWS ARTICLES THEY WROTE AS KIDS.
BUT EVER AFTER IN THEIR DIARIES THEY WROTE IT THAT WAY , SON OF A B9TCH!!!@#$%^&*&^*!
I LOVED THEIR DIARIES WHICH THEY TURNED OVER After Christmas SINCE WE LOVED TO LAUGH AT THEM. THEY KEPT THEM A TOTAL SECRET ALL YEAR BUT WHEN THEY GOT NEW ONES AT CHRISTMAS THEY FINISHED THEM UNTIL NEW YEAR'S THEN HANDED THEM OVER!!
ON E OF THE JOYS OF MY LIFE AND DAD'S TOO IT SEEMED.
I LOOK BACK WITH REGRET THAT WE DIDN'T DO MORE FOR OUR KIDS THAN WE DID, BUT THEY CLAIM IT DIDN'T MATTER THEY THOUGHT CHILDHOOD WAS LOT OF FUN.
WELL I DID THE BEST I COULD WITH WHAT PARENTAL TRAINING I HAD WHICH WAS VERY LITTLE . I PATTERNED MY LIFE AFTER A JEWISH-CATHOLIC FAMILY I HUNG OUT WITH WHEN I WAS A CHILD.
I RARELY WAS KEPT FROM EXPLORING MY ENVIRONMENT WHILE GROWING UP IN MY SUPER FOSTER HOME WITH UNCLE TONY AND TIA CARMELITA
UNCLE TONY PLAYED JACKS WITH ME AND WE PLAYED HOOKY FROM MASS AND WENT TO THE CORNER DRUGSTORE AND DRANK MALTS INSTEAD AND MY DIME FOR THE COLLECTION BOX WENT FOR A COMIC BOOK , USUALLY LITTLE LULU OR SUPERMAN OR ADVENTURES INTO THE UNKNOWN, OR ARCHIE.
I HAD A NICE COLLECTION OF COMIX AND I PAID FOR EVERYONE OF THEM I GOT $1.00 ALLOWANCE A MONTH AND I MADE IT LAST!!
UNCLE TONY AND I HAD A VERY SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP, HE LOVED TO SEE ME PLAY AND JOINED IN WHENEVER HE FIT IN. HE WATCHED WHEN WE MADE PLAYS ON THE FRONT PORCH I HAD 3 OR 4 LITTLE FRIENDS WHO ACTED OUT SOME OF THE PARTS BUT I ALWAYS KEPT THE PLUMIEST PART FOR MYSELF AND THE KIDS I PLAYED WITH DIDN'T MIND AT ALL.
THEY'D COME OVER AND WOULD SAY LET'S MAKE A play!!
WE DID A LOT. I WANTED TO BE A MOVIE STAR BUT NEVER MADE IT TO LA WHEN I DID GO THERE I SAW IT AS UGLY AND DIRTY AND WANTED TO GO BACK TO THE CLEAN MOUNTAINS ALSO I HAD INFECTIONS IN MY SINUSES FROM THE SMOG SO DIFFERENT FROM THE PURE MOUNTAIN AIR IN SANTA FE THAT I WAS USED TO.
ALL IN ALL AFTER THE AGE OF 8 MY LIFE WENT FROM BAD TO BEST AND MY LIFE UP UNTIL AGE 4 WITH GRAMPA WAS DELIGHTFUL HE DIED IN JAN 1940 JUST BEFORE MY 4TH.
I ALWAYS FELT LOVED BY HIM. HE WAS KIND AND FUNNY AND WOULD MAKE SUGGESTIVE REMARKS TO GIRLS AND LADIES AS THEY WALKED BY OUR HOUSE WHERE WE SAT MANY TIMES TO WATCH THE WORLD GO BY.
THEY LAUGHED AT HIM AND DIDN'T SEEM TO MIND. THOSE WERE INTERESTING TIMES.
FROM AGE 5 UNTIL 8 I WAS TORMENTED BY A LOUD CRASS BRASH STEP DAD NAMED CLYDE HE WAS NASTY AND SEXUAL AND RUDE AND SELFISH A PSYCHOPATHOLIGICAL KIND OF MAN. MY MOTHER IN HER DESPERATION TO GET A MAN TO SUPPORT OUR FAMILY MARRIED THIS BEAST.
I WAS RELIEVED WHEN I GOT SENT TO ANOTHER HOME TO LIVE IN THE FIRST HOME WAS HORRIBLE AND I ASKED THE SOCIAL WORKER FOR A CHANGE AS DID THEY SINCE I WROTE A LETTER TO MY MOTHER EXPRESSING MY UNHAPPINESS WHICH THEY FOUND IN MY DRAWER AND DEMANDED MY REMOVAL I WAS SOOO Happy!! MY NEW HOME WAS A DREAM I HAD MY OWN ROOM AND NICE KIND FOSTER PARENTS.
AT ANY RATE THAT WAS MY UPBRINGING TO PREPARE ME FOR MOTHERHOOD. I MARRIED A MIDWESTERNER. HE WAS THE SILENT TYPE EXCEPT WHEN STIRRED TO ANGER. I WAS BROUGHT UP TO ALWAYS SAY WHATEVER I THOUGHT HE WAS BROUGHT UP TO NEVER MENTION ANYTHING . WHAT WILL THE NEIGHBORS THINK? IN SANTA FE PEOPLE ALWAYS SAID WHAT THEY THOUGHT EVEN IF IT WAS NOT A GOOD THING NO SECRETS. MY HUSBAND WAS BROUGHT UP TO KEEP EVERYTHING A SECRET AND WHEN I BLURTED MY THOUGHTS HE GOT ANGRY IT TOOK A LONG TIME AND A COLLEGE EDUCATION FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND WE HAD A CULTURAL DIFFERENCE HAHAH.
TODAY IS OUR 55TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY THOUGH SO WE ARE OK I GUESS. WOULD YOU NOT SAY SO?
BUT HERE I AM AT LAST.
I HAD SO MANY STORIES BUT IN MY STRESS TO GET INTO MY BLOG THEY SLID AWAY...THAT IS THE WAY OF THE OLD WOMAN'S MIND AND THE OLD MANS AS WELL I HAVE A HUBBY AGED 80 NOW
AND HE ASKS IF I REMEMBER THAT THINGY .. HA HA AS IF.
WHEN MY KIDS WERE LITTLE, WE HAD AN ELECTRIC TYPEWRITER AND THEY WOULD WRITE STUFF ONCE IN AWHILE...ONCE THEY WROTE SON OF A B9TCH THEY HIT THE 9 INSTEAD OF THE I HAHAH ONE OF MY FAVORITE NEWS ARTICLES THEY WROTE AS KIDS.
BUT EVER AFTER IN THEIR DIARIES THEY WROTE IT THAT WAY , SON OF A B9TCH!!!@#$%^&*&^*!
I LOVED THEIR DIARIES WHICH THEY TURNED OVER After Christmas SINCE WE LOVED TO LAUGH AT THEM. THEY KEPT THEM A TOTAL SECRET ALL YEAR BUT WHEN THEY GOT NEW ONES AT CHRISTMAS THEY FINISHED THEM UNTIL NEW YEAR'S THEN HANDED THEM OVER!!
ON E OF THE JOYS OF MY LIFE AND DAD'S TOO IT SEEMED.
I LOOK BACK WITH REGRET THAT WE DIDN'T DO MORE FOR OUR KIDS THAN WE DID, BUT THEY CLAIM IT DIDN'T MATTER THEY THOUGHT CHILDHOOD WAS LOT OF FUN.
WELL I DID THE BEST I COULD WITH WHAT PARENTAL TRAINING I HAD WHICH WAS VERY LITTLE . I PATTERNED MY LIFE AFTER A JEWISH-CATHOLIC FAMILY I HUNG OUT WITH WHEN I WAS A CHILD.
I RARELY WAS KEPT FROM EXPLORING MY ENVIRONMENT WHILE GROWING UP IN MY SUPER FOSTER HOME WITH UNCLE TONY AND TIA CARMELITA
UNCLE TONY PLAYED JACKS WITH ME AND WE PLAYED HOOKY FROM MASS AND WENT TO THE CORNER DRUGSTORE AND DRANK MALTS INSTEAD AND MY DIME FOR THE COLLECTION BOX WENT FOR A COMIC BOOK , USUALLY LITTLE LULU OR SUPERMAN OR ADVENTURES INTO THE UNKNOWN, OR ARCHIE.
I HAD A NICE COLLECTION OF COMIX AND I PAID FOR EVERYONE OF THEM I GOT $1.00 ALLOWANCE A MONTH AND I MADE IT LAST!!
UNCLE TONY AND I HAD A VERY SPECIAL RELATIONSHIP, HE LOVED TO SEE ME PLAY AND JOINED IN WHENEVER HE FIT IN. HE WATCHED WHEN WE MADE PLAYS ON THE FRONT PORCH I HAD 3 OR 4 LITTLE FRIENDS WHO ACTED OUT SOME OF THE PARTS BUT I ALWAYS KEPT THE PLUMIEST PART FOR MYSELF AND THE KIDS I PLAYED WITH DIDN'T MIND AT ALL.
THEY'D COME OVER AND WOULD SAY LET'S MAKE A play!!
WE DID A LOT. I WANTED TO BE A MOVIE STAR BUT NEVER MADE IT TO LA WHEN I DID GO THERE I SAW IT AS UGLY AND DIRTY AND WANTED TO GO BACK TO THE CLEAN MOUNTAINS ALSO I HAD INFECTIONS IN MY SINUSES FROM THE SMOG SO DIFFERENT FROM THE PURE MOUNTAIN AIR IN SANTA FE THAT I WAS USED TO.
ALL IN ALL AFTER THE AGE OF 8 MY LIFE WENT FROM BAD TO BEST AND MY LIFE UP UNTIL AGE 4 WITH GRAMPA WAS DELIGHTFUL HE DIED IN JAN 1940 JUST BEFORE MY 4TH.
I ALWAYS FELT LOVED BY HIM. HE WAS KIND AND FUNNY AND WOULD MAKE SUGGESTIVE REMARKS TO GIRLS AND LADIES AS THEY WALKED BY OUR HOUSE WHERE WE SAT MANY TIMES TO WATCH THE WORLD GO BY.
THEY LAUGHED AT HIM AND DIDN'T SEEM TO MIND. THOSE WERE INTERESTING TIMES.
FROM AGE 5 UNTIL 8 I WAS TORMENTED BY A LOUD CRASS BRASH STEP DAD NAMED CLYDE HE WAS NASTY AND SEXUAL AND RUDE AND SELFISH A PSYCHOPATHOLIGICAL KIND OF MAN. MY MOTHER IN HER DESPERATION TO GET A MAN TO SUPPORT OUR FAMILY MARRIED THIS BEAST.
I WAS RELIEVED WHEN I GOT SENT TO ANOTHER HOME TO LIVE IN THE FIRST HOME WAS HORRIBLE AND I ASKED THE SOCIAL WORKER FOR A CHANGE AS DID THEY SINCE I WROTE A LETTER TO MY MOTHER EXPRESSING MY UNHAPPINESS WHICH THEY FOUND IN MY DRAWER AND DEMANDED MY REMOVAL I WAS SOOO Happy!! MY NEW HOME WAS A DREAM I HAD MY OWN ROOM AND NICE KIND FOSTER PARENTS.
AT ANY RATE THAT WAS MY UPBRINGING TO PREPARE ME FOR MOTHERHOOD. I MARRIED A MIDWESTERNER. HE WAS THE SILENT TYPE EXCEPT WHEN STIRRED TO ANGER. I WAS BROUGHT UP TO ALWAYS SAY WHATEVER I THOUGHT HE WAS BROUGHT UP TO NEVER MENTION ANYTHING . WHAT WILL THE NEIGHBORS THINK? IN SANTA FE PEOPLE ALWAYS SAID WHAT THEY THOUGHT EVEN IF IT WAS NOT A GOOD THING NO SECRETS. MY HUSBAND WAS BROUGHT UP TO KEEP EVERYTHING A SECRET AND WHEN I BLURTED MY THOUGHTS HE GOT ANGRY IT TOOK A LONG TIME AND A COLLEGE EDUCATION FOR ME TO UNDERSTAND WE HAD A CULTURAL DIFFERENCE HAHAH.
TODAY IS OUR 55TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY THOUGH SO WE ARE OK I GUESS. WOULD YOU NOT SAY SO?
Monday, April 25, 2011
HAHAH I NEED MY OWN STAFF
DAD: (WHILE WATCHING TV) HOW COME THEY HAVE MORE INTERESTING LIVES THAN WE DO?
ME: BECAUSE THEY HAVE BETTER WRITERS
DON'T YOU SOEMTIMES WONDER WHO IS WRITING YOUR LIFE?
AND I CANT WRITE MY TYPING PROHINITS THIS.
AND I TYPE TERRIBLY AS WELL, AND THAT IS BECAUSE ALL DURING MY CAREER I HAD SECRETARIES AND TRANSCRIBERS AVAILABLE TO TYPE FOR ME.
ONCE I TOOK A TYPING CLASS AND MY TEACHER TOLD ME I BETTER GET A JOB WHERE I HAD A SECRETARY BECAUSE I WOULD NEVER MAKE A SECRETARY MYSELF. HOW VERY TRUE THIS WAS.
I WAS A N LCSW AND ALWAYS HAD SUPPORT STAFF AVAILABLE MUCH TO MY RELEIF.
ONE JOB I HAD TWO AIDES TO RUN TO CLIENTS HOMES AND DO PAPER SIGNING FOR ME. THAT WAS A PLUM JOB. AND BOTH WERE PROMOTED TO ASSOCIATE COUNSELORS . I WAS SO HAPPY FOR THEM. IT HELPED THAT OEN WAS A BA SOCIAL WORKER .SHE WAS EXCELLENT. I WONDER WHERE THEY ARE?
ME: BECAUSE THEY HAVE BETTER WRITERS
DON'T YOU SOEMTIMES WONDER WHO IS WRITING YOUR LIFE?
AND I CANT WRITE MY TYPING PROHINITS THIS.
AND I TYPE TERRIBLY AS WELL, AND THAT IS BECAUSE ALL DURING MY CAREER I HAD SECRETARIES AND TRANSCRIBERS AVAILABLE TO TYPE FOR ME.
ONCE I TOOK A TYPING CLASS AND MY TEACHER TOLD ME I BETTER GET A JOB WHERE I HAD A SECRETARY BECAUSE I WOULD NEVER MAKE A SECRETARY MYSELF. HOW VERY TRUE THIS WAS.
I WAS A N LCSW AND ALWAYS HAD SUPPORT STAFF AVAILABLE MUCH TO MY RELEIF.
ONE JOB I HAD TWO AIDES TO RUN TO CLIENTS HOMES AND DO PAPER SIGNING FOR ME. THAT WAS A PLUM JOB. AND BOTH WERE PROMOTED TO ASSOCIATE COUNSELORS . I WAS SO HAPPY FOR THEM. IT HELPED THAT OEN WAS A BA SOCIAL WORKER .SHE WAS EXCELLENT. I WONDER WHERE THEY ARE?
Sunday, April 24, 2011
AAAH EASTER!!!
WE HAD 2 TEENS VISIT US OVER EASTER VACATION THEY LEFT WEDNESDAY TO SHARE THE BALANCE OF THEIR VACATION WITH GIRLFRIENDS AND OTHERS AND MOM OF COURSE AND DAD.
THEY WERE SO WONDERFUL . HOPE THEY COME BACK AGAIN. THEY SHOPPED TIL I DROPPED HAHAH. WE DIDN'T FIND A VINTAGE STORE HERE THAT'S THEIR FAVE PLACE TO SHOP.
IF ANYONE STARTED ONE THE TEENS WOULD BE SO HAPPY.
I BOUGHT THIS GREAT THINGY DRESS FORM THAT LOOKS LIKE A SHAPE OF A WOMAN WITH LITTLE HANGERS ON THE TOP WHERE I PLACED IT IN MY BATHROOM AND HUNG NIGHTIES AND BRAS ON IT ITS SO USEFUL I LOVE IT .
I GOT IT AT ROSS CAN YOU BELIEVE IT? IT'S SUCH A VINTAGE KINDA THING.
I THINK THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND ROMANTIC CLOTHES WERE MADE IN THE 70S AND 80'S SINCE THEN ALL YOU SEE ARE CLOTHES TO SHOW OFF BREASTS AND BUTTS NO REALLY LOVELY THINGS.
AND HIGH HEELS WITH JEANS WERE ONLY WORN BY PROSTITUTES IN THOSE DAYS. GIRLS WORE MAINLY FLATS AND HEALTHY SHOES AND BALLET SLIPPERS. HIGH HEELS WERE RESERVED FOR FORMAL DANCES AND THE LIKE.
THE ONLY PLACE YOU CAN FIND THESE LOVELY THINGS NOWADAYS IS IN THE VICTORIAN CATALOG , MY HUBBY WAS LOOKING AT THIS CATALOG AND SAID THOSE ARE BEAUTIFUL CLOTHES WHY DON'T STORES CARRY THEM
WELL THEY ARE AND THEY CARRY ALL SIZES NOW THEY STARTED WITH A SIZE 2 NOW THEY HAVE THE WOMEN'S SIZES WHICH IS GRATIFYING FOR ME AS A SHORT FAT LIL CREATURE. I ONCE WAS AN 8 OR 10 I FO8ND OUT THAT SIZE 10 IN MY DAY IS A SIZE 2 NOW AND AN 8 WAS A 1. I WAS VERY SMALL IN MY YOUNGER DAYS THESE PILLS I TAKE CAUSE ME TO HOLD FAT ITS SO VERY DISTRESSING.
NEXT TIME I BUY DRESSES I'M GONNA BUY THERE THEY COST MORE BUT THE BEAUTY OF THEM IS 1000% MORE THAN THIS JUNK IN REGULAR DRESS STORES
I GOT A CALL FROM MY SISTER THE OLDEST ONE. SHES A WE TALKED FOR 30 MINUTES I GOT TIRED OF HOLDING THE PHONE SO I TRIED TO TURN THE SPEAKER PHONE ON AND ACCIDENTALLY DISCONNECTED HER. SO I CALLED HER BACK WE TALKED ABOUT KAV AND THE GIRLS AND MOVIES SHES GONNA WATCH.
WELLP I AM OUT OF THOUGHTS I AM GOING TO CALL MY YOUNGER BROTHER ARTHUR I JUST DID HE IS GOING TO SEND ME MAKINGS FOR POSOLE I HAVE NEVER MADE THAT. HE GAVE ME INSTRUCTIONS ON THE PHONE SOUNDS EASY PUT IT ALL IN THE CROCK POT OVERNIGHT AND ITS READY !!
A WONDER STEW OF CORN AND PORK AND CHILIES.
I COOK EVERYTHING NEW MEXICAN BUT I HAVE NEVER DONE THAT
I AM NOT IN A HSITORY MOOD TODAY SO THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY.
THEY WERE SO WONDERFUL . HOPE THEY COME BACK AGAIN. THEY SHOPPED TIL I DROPPED HAHAH. WE DIDN'T FIND A VINTAGE STORE HERE THAT'S THEIR FAVE PLACE TO SHOP.
IF ANYONE STARTED ONE THE TEENS WOULD BE SO HAPPY.
I BOUGHT THIS GREAT THINGY DRESS FORM THAT LOOKS LIKE A SHAPE OF A WOMAN WITH LITTLE HANGERS ON THE TOP WHERE I PLACED IT IN MY BATHROOM AND HUNG NIGHTIES AND BRAS ON IT ITS SO USEFUL I LOVE IT .
I GOT IT AT ROSS CAN YOU BELIEVE IT? IT'S SUCH A VINTAGE KINDA THING.
I THINK THE MOST BEAUTIFUL AND ROMANTIC CLOTHES WERE MADE IN THE 70S AND 80'S SINCE THEN ALL YOU SEE ARE CLOTHES TO SHOW OFF BREASTS AND BUTTS NO REALLY LOVELY THINGS.
AND HIGH HEELS WITH JEANS WERE ONLY WORN BY PROSTITUTES IN THOSE DAYS. GIRLS WORE MAINLY FLATS AND HEALTHY SHOES AND BALLET SLIPPERS. HIGH HEELS WERE RESERVED FOR FORMAL DANCES AND THE LIKE.
THE ONLY PLACE YOU CAN FIND THESE LOVELY THINGS NOWADAYS IS IN THE VICTORIAN CATALOG , MY HUBBY WAS LOOKING AT THIS CATALOG AND SAID THOSE ARE BEAUTIFUL CLOTHES WHY DON'T STORES CARRY THEM
WELL THEY ARE AND THEY CARRY ALL SIZES NOW THEY STARTED WITH A SIZE 2 NOW THEY HAVE THE WOMEN'S SIZES WHICH IS GRATIFYING FOR ME AS A SHORT FAT LIL CREATURE. I ONCE WAS AN 8 OR 10 I FO8ND OUT THAT SIZE 10 IN MY DAY IS A SIZE 2 NOW AND AN 8 WAS A 1. I WAS VERY SMALL IN MY YOUNGER DAYS THESE PILLS I TAKE CAUSE ME TO HOLD FAT ITS SO VERY DISTRESSING.
NEXT TIME I BUY DRESSES I'M GONNA BUY THERE THEY COST MORE BUT THE BEAUTY OF THEM IS 1000% MORE THAN THIS JUNK IN REGULAR DRESS STORES
I GOT A CALL FROM MY SISTER THE OLDEST ONE. SHES A WE TALKED FOR 30 MINUTES I GOT TIRED OF HOLDING THE PHONE SO I TRIED TO TURN THE SPEAKER PHONE ON AND ACCIDENTALLY DISCONNECTED HER. SO I CALLED HER BACK WE TALKED ABOUT KAV AND THE GIRLS AND MOVIES SHES GONNA WATCH.
WELLP I AM OUT OF THOUGHTS I AM GOING TO CALL MY YOUNGER BROTHER ARTHUR I JUST DID HE IS GOING TO SEND ME MAKINGS FOR POSOLE I HAVE NEVER MADE THAT. HE GAVE ME INSTRUCTIONS ON THE PHONE SOUNDS EASY PUT IT ALL IN THE CROCK POT OVERNIGHT AND ITS READY !!
A WONDER STEW OF CORN AND PORK AND CHILIES.
I COOK EVERYTHING NEW MEXICAN BUT I HAVE NEVER DONE THAT
I AM NOT IN A HSITORY MOOD TODAY SO THATS ALL I HAVE TO SAY.
Thursday, March 24, 2011
THAT DAD
OMIGOODNESS !! THIS WEEK I HAD 2 BAD DAD THINGS .
1. HE ASKED ME TO CALL THE GARBAGE PEOPLE TO GET A NEW GARBAGE CAN THE LID BROKE OFF AND THE NEIGHBOR HAD SUBSTITUTED THIS BROKEN LID FOR OUR NEW GARBAGE BIN HE LET HER.
I CALLED THEM AND THE ARE TO GET US ANEW BIN ON FRIDAY WELL THE LAST TIME WE GOT A NEW BIN THEY HAD US PUT IT OUT EMPTY ON A MONDAY AM SO I FIGURED THEY WOULD WANT AN EMPTY ONE SINCE THEY ARE GETTING IT ON FRIDAY AND FRIDAY IS OUR PICKUP DAY I THOUGHT IT NEEDED TO BE EMPTY LIKE LAST TIME , OF COURSE DAD DISAGREED AND FELT HE NEEDED A FULL CAN SO HE CALLED THEM CUZ I WAS DONE BEING THE SLAVE OVER GARBAGE NOW.
THEY SAID IT COULD BE FULL AND HE CROWED IN TRIUMPH!!
NEXT
LAST NIGHT WHEN HE TRIED TO SET THE HOUSE ALARM IT WOULDN'T GO ON IT SAID TROUBLE SO WE CLICKED TO SEE WHERE THE TROUBLE WAS, IT WAS THE GARAGE DOOR WHICH HE LEAVES A BIT OPEN EVEY NOW AND AGAIN. SO I WANTED TO SEE WHAT THE PROBLEM WAS HE WOULD NOT LET ME GO SEE. THE CAT CAME IN THE HOUSE AND HE WAS ANNOYED I DON'T KNOW WHY THE CAT COMES INTO THE HOUSE ALL THE TIME.
I FELT HE WAS UP TO SOME OLD TRICK HE DOES THAT TRIES TO KEEP ME FROM SEEING A TRICK HES UP TO WELL I WANTED TO SEE IT, SINCE THIS IS MY HOUSE AS WELL. THIS IS A GUY THAT RUNS AROUND WITH A FLAME THROWER AND BURNS THE NEIGHBORS DRIP SYSTEMS WITH IT. IN TRYING TO BURN WEEDS.
HE SAID HE WAS TRYING TO KEEP THE CAT OUT. WELL THE ALARM STILL WAS IN TROUBLE SO WE CALLED THE COMPANY THEY SAID TO DO STUFF AND IT DIDN'T WORK SO THEY TOLD US THE BATTERY NEEDED TO BE REPLACED. I HAD SEEN WHAT APPEARED TO BE A LOCK ON THE BOX SO WE WENT TO SEE, IT WAS A PHONE JACK, DAD STILL WAS TRYING TO KEEP ME AWAY FROM MY CLOSET. SAID THE CAT WAS GONNA GO IN THERE. WELL THE GUY SAID THEY WOULD SEND SOMEONE TO FIX IT DAD SAID HE WOULD BUY A NEW BATTERY I ASKED THE MAN WHAT KIND OF BATTERY DAD WAS YELLING AT ME ILL LOOK TOMORROW. WELL WHEN THEY GUY HAD SAID THEY WOULD FIX IT AND DAD WOULDN'T LISTEN TO ME I GAVE HIM THE PHONE I WAS TIRED OF HIS TRIX. SO TODAY WE FIND OUT ITS S HUGE BATTERY AND WE NEED A RADIO SHACK TO GET ONE AT AND IT COSTS $30 I REMEMBERED THE GUY HAD SAID THEY WOULD COME OUT TO FIX IT.. SO I TOLD DAD HE SAID IF THEY'RE NOT GONNA CHARGE FOR IT THE GUY SAID IT WAS $10 TO COME OUT.CHEAPER THAN $30 A BATTERY I FIGURED I SAID OK. DAD WAS RIGHT ON ME AND WANTED TO KNOW HOW MUCH FINALLY I GOT HIM TO SEE THE LIGHT. AND HE AGREED TO HAVE THEM COME OUT ND DO IT. WHEW!!
IT GETS MORE AND MORE DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH A GUY WHO KNOWS IT ALL AND WONT LISTEN TO ME. AFTER HE TELLS ME HE CANT TALK ON THE PHONE AND WANTS ME TO HANDLE IT THEN HE HAS A BUNCH OF OBJECTIONS ON TO HOW I DO IT.
YOU CAN BE SURE I WANT IT DONE WELL FAST AND FREE OR CHEAP SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT HE IS WORRIED ABOUT. LET A COMPETENT WOMAN WORK FOR HEAVENS SAKE IF YOU ARE NOT GONNA DO IT!!
THE OLDER A MAN GETS THE MORE STUBBORN AND RUDE HE GETS.
SO GIRLZ IF YOU THINK MARRYING AN OLD MAN FOR HIS MONEY IS A GOOD PLAN , THINK AGAIN, HE WONT LET YOU TOUCH THE MONEY AND HE WILL ARGUE OVER EVERY DRESS YOU WANNA BUY!!
NEVER MARRY A MAN OVER 70 ITS BAD NEWS!!!
1. HE ASKED ME TO CALL THE GARBAGE PEOPLE TO GET A NEW GARBAGE CAN THE LID BROKE OFF AND THE NEIGHBOR HAD SUBSTITUTED THIS BROKEN LID FOR OUR NEW GARBAGE BIN HE LET HER.
I CALLED THEM AND THE ARE TO GET US ANEW BIN ON FRIDAY WELL THE LAST TIME WE GOT A NEW BIN THEY HAD US PUT IT OUT EMPTY ON A MONDAY AM SO I FIGURED THEY WOULD WANT AN EMPTY ONE SINCE THEY ARE GETTING IT ON FRIDAY AND FRIDAY IS OUR PICKUP DAY I THOUGHT IT NEEDED TO BE EMPTY LIKE LAST TIME , OF COURSE DAD DISAGREED AND FELT HE NEEDED A FULL CAN SO HE CALLED THEM CUZ I WAS DONE BEING THE SLAVE OVER GARBAGE NOW.
THEY SAID IT COULD BE FULL AND HE CROWED IN TRIUMPH!!
NEXT
LAST NIGHT WHEN HE TRIED TO SET THE HOUSE ALARM IT WOULDN'T GO ON IT SAID TROUBLE SO WE CLICKED TO SEE WHERE THE TROUBLE WAS, IT WAS THE GARAGE DOOR WHICH HE LEAVES A BIT OPEN EVEY NOW AND AGAIN. SO I WANTED TO SEE WHAT THE PROBLEM WAS HE WOULD NOT LET ME GO SEE. THE CAT CAME IN THE HOUSE AND HE WAS ANNOYED I DON'T KNOW WHY THE CAT COMES INTO THE HOUSE ALL THE TIME.
I FELT HE WAS UP TO SOME OLD TRICK HE DOES THAT TRIES TO KEEP ME FROM SEEING A TRICK HES UP TO WELL I WANTED TO SEE IT, SINCE THIS IS MY HOUSE AS WELL. THIS IS A GUY THAT RUNS AROUND WITH A FLAME THROWER AND BURNS THE NEIGHBORS DRIP SYSTEMS WITH IT. IN TRYING TO BURN WEEDS.
HE SAID HE WAS TRYING TO KEEP THE CAT OUT. WELL THE ALARM STILL WAS IN TROUBLE SO WE CALLED THE COMPANY THEY SAID TO DO STUFF AND IT DIDN'T WORK SO THEY TOLD US THE BATTERY NEEDED TO BE REPLACED. I HAD SEEN WHAT APPEARED TO BE A LOCK ON THE BOX SO WE WENT TO SEE, IT WAS A PHONE JACK, DAD STILL WAS TRYING TO KEEP ME AWAY FROM MY CLOSET. SAID THE CAT WAS GONNA GO IN THERE. WELL THE GUY SAID THEY WOULD SEND SOMEONE TO FIX IT DAD SAID HE WOULD BUY A NEW BATTERY I ASKED THE MAN WHAT KIND OF BATTERY DAD WAS YELLING AT ME ILL LOOK TOMORROW. WELL WHEN THEY GUY HAD SAID THEY WOULD FIX IT AND DAD WOULDN'T LISTEN TO ME I GAVE HIM THE PHONE I WAS TIRED OF HIS TRIX. SO TODAY WE FIND OUT ITS S HUGE BATTERY AND WE NEED A RADIO SHACK TO GET ONE AT AND IT COSTS $30 I REMEMBERED THE GUY HAD SAID THEY WOULD COME OUT TO FIX IT.. SO I TOLD DAD HE SAID IF THEY'RE NOT GONNA CHARGE FOR IT THE GUY SAID IT WAS $10 TO COME OUT.CHEAPER THAN $30 A BATTERY I FIGURED I SAID OK. DAD WAS RIGHT ON ME AND WANTED TO KNOW HOW MUCH FINALLY I GOT HIM TO SEE THE LIGHT. AND HE AGREED TO HAVE THEM COME OUT ND DO IT. WHEW!!
IT GETS MORE AND MORE DIFFICULT TO DEAL WITH A GUY WHO KNOWS IT ALL AND WONT LISTEN TO ME. AFTER HE TELLS ME HE CANT TALK ON THE PHONE AND WANTS ME TO HANDLE IT THEN HE HAS A BUNCH OF OBJECTIONS ON TO HOW I DO IT.
YOU CAN BE SURE I WANT IT DONE WELL FAST AND FREE OR CHEAP SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT HE IS WORRIED ABOUT. LET A COMPETENT WOMAN WORK FOR HEAVENS SAKE IF YOU ARE NOT GONNA DO IT!!
THE OLDER A MAN GETS THE MORE STUBBORN AND RUDE HE GETS.
SO GIRLZ IF YOU THINK MARRYING AN OLD MAN FOR HIS MONEY IS A GOOD PLAN , THINK AGAIN, HE WONT LET YOU TOUCH THE MONEY AND HE WILL ARGUE OVER EVERY DRESS YOU WANNA BUY!!
NEVER MARRY A MAN OVER 70 ITS BAD NEWS!!!
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